Not everyone is as confident as Elle Woods from legally blonde. Instead of wearing bold pink everyday, some girls might shy away and wear more muted tones. For a shy person common struggles they face like public speaking, going to parties and of course confessing their feelings to someone they like.
Are you wondering if a shy co-worker, a friend or a classmate likes you?
Here are the signs:
1. She Fidgets And Adjust Her Clothes
Every girl wants to be at their best in front of their crush so if you find her fixing her skirt or playing with her hair it means that she is making an effort to look attractive for you. If your find her fidgeting with her fingers too it means that she's nervous around you. Help her relax and show her it's okay to be silly with you.
2 .She Finds Small Excuses To be Around You
Like most of the typical girls, a shy girl will rarely ever outwardly ask you on date, what she'll do instead is find small opportunities to be around you. Whether it means hanging out in a group setting or knowing when you'll be at library or coffee shop. She'll make sure to show up a your favorite spots, a shy girl wants to be noticed too.
3. She Looks Away First
Strong eye contact is usually a good sign that someone is in to you, but shy girls often times have a hard time on this one When you talk to her take note of how fast does she look away from you. If you notice that she does this frequently, it means that she's nervous around you. Eventually they want to boost their self-confidence, so the more you talk to her to more she will be comfortable at staring at you.
4. She's Spying On You
Knowing every little detail about you is one of the signs that a shy girl is into you. She might not opt ask you personally, so watch out. She will instead investigate in the background. If you catch her leaning in as you talk to to others or notice that she's asking her friends about you, chances are she's collecting information in order to impress you.
5. She's Laughing At Your Jokes
Whether a girl is shy or not, she will laugh at your jokes whether it is silly or not. Consider it her subtle way of flirting with you. Even if you weren't intentionally to make yourself funny and she suddenly laughs at what you said chances are she likes you. People tend to find the person they are attracted to as being funny all the time.
6. She Intentionally Avoids You
You thought that she is avoiding and finds you annoying but it might not be the case because if a shy girl is into you, chances are she is tense and uneasy in front of you. So if you find her joking comfortably with other guys. Its either she is trying to make you feel jealous or she is just to shy to approach you. Don't lose hope, if she acts strange or blushes in front of you, it only means that she likes you.
7. She Likes Your Posts Online
They might not be as talkative as you think that is because they're worried of turning you off by saying something stupid or unsure on what to talk about. So if she's texting you with long messages to keep your conversations going or noticed that she frequently likes your post on social media then that is a sure sign that she's very much into you. Never worry if she takes a while to reply to you maybe she's just busy or playing hard to get. If she responds almost instantaneously then its a strong sign that the likes you.
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