In the course of our lives it's very rare to meet someone that are so amazing in our eyes that we immediately thought that he or she might be our soulmate. But unfortunately love is a two-way street, it doesn’t matter how you like the other person if they didn’t feel the same about you. Before letting our feelings develop on the other person we must learn to gauge their feelings on us. It should be mutual or there must be some kind of interest coming from the other party.
It is a lot easier to deal or have a relationship with someone who shows
you a lot of interest right from the get-go. If you meet someone who doesn’t even
want to look at you straight in the eyes is a big time waster, it doesn’t matter
how beautiful they are or how much you like them. This will only lead to
friendzone at best and will never ever progress into something romantic.
Be Confident and Know What You Want
There is a reason why most women fall into the “bad guys” than the nice guys who are content to watch and are too afraid to ask women on a date. We are all attracted with confident people, we all like successful individuals. Being confident gives you an attractive aura that people just couldn’t resist.
Being confident also means that they are never afraid of what the outcome will be. They do what they want, whenever they want and whoever they want. If you like someone especially if you are guy, ask her straight up. if she rejects you be nice and walk away with confidence. Confident people are not afraid to fail. If you are confident in yourself, I promise you that that eventually someone will take notice and that might be the person that you’ve been searching all your life.
Don’t Be A Nice Guy
I’m not saying that you have to be douchebag or an a-hole. But making all the effort, making all the concessions will definitely land you into the friendzone train wreck. You will only end up being taken for granted and treated like doormat. Doing them favors, giving them money, fixing their broken toilet will do you nothing except being a tool, a handyman in their eyes.
Conclusion
The best way to avoid being on friendzone is being smart with whom you choose to fall in love with. I know that we don’t get to choose whom we are attracted to but we could certainly negate that feeling of attraction early if we objectively look if the person is good for us or the feelings of attraction is mutual.
Aiming for self-improvement and well-being will increase your chances of being liked. Be the best of what you do in your professional life. Get yourself in shape, go to the gym. Being successful and in shape physically, mentally and spiritually will reduce the chance of you getting friendzoned.
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