When it comes
to asking someone that we like on a date or letting them know that what like
them there is one terrifying outcome that we don’t want to hear: “I think I see
us more as friends”. It simply means that the other person is rejecting you without hurting your feelings.
As the
great coach Corey Wayne says that “Rejection Breeds Obsession”, its human
instinct engraved on us to want something that we can never have. We want
romance, sex, relationship but the other person only wants platonic friendship.
Friendzone is considered a downgrade from those who used to have a relationship, when one party has lost all love and wanted to keep the other person strictly from friendship purposes only. On the other hand, when someone has something to benefit from the other person, he or she might use the friendship first leaving the other person holding on false hope that a relationship will be possible one day.
How to know If you are
being Friendzoned
Women are emotional creatures, they wanted
to talk about their feelings all the time but if she is constantly bringing
other guys or her ex in your conversations it is a huge sign that she only
treats you as friend. Women who has a high interest in you will not bring up
other men into your conversation if they really like you unless she has a low
self-esteem or if she a woman who has no integrity.
How can you prevent being on a Friendzone
Simply walk away and mean it. If you are a
self-respecting human being, accepting something that you didn’t want will
simply make you weak, needy and insecure in the eyes of the person that you
like. If they offer you friendship just say no and walk away. Just tell them
you are only interested in a relationship and call you if they change their
mind. Walk away and never look back.
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